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MEDIATION AS A TOOL FOR SPACE OPERATIONS IN PRIVILEGED NEUTRAL

Giovanna Lonardi
Tiziana Mantovani

Allieve Didatte A.I.M.S., Istituto Veneto di Terapia Familiare, sede di Verona, IVTF-Verona@libero.itzia-tina@tiscali.it

"Compito dei genitori
è donare due cose ai figli: le radici e le ali"
(Proverbio del Québec)

La costruzione di un Centro di Spazio Neutro al servizio dei minori separati da uno o da entrambi i genitori nasce per la tutela del "diritto a mantenere relazioni personali e contatti diretti con entrambi i genitori, salvo quando ciò è contrario al maggior interesse del bambino"
(ONU- ‘Convenzione dei diritti dell’infanzia’ art.9,1989, New York)


Introduzione

Scopo dell'articolo è dimostrare come in un Centro di Spazio Neutro le modalità usate nella mediazione siano indispensabili per permettere al figlio l’accesso al genitore, e al genitore la possibilità di avvicinarsi e riconoscere i bisogni del figlio.
Si vuole dimostrare come le tecniche di mediazione utilizzate secondo il modello sistemico facilitino la ‘protezione’ della storia e dei vissuti del singolo.
Per attivare uno spazio dove possa essere favorito e mantenuto il legame genitoriale si è delineato uno sfondo teorico can offer support in defining the possible ways of intervention.
This background serves to allow the identification and implementation of intervention models varied depending on:
· the application;
· dell'inviante;
· the problematic situation;
· of this level of conflict in the family ;
· age of the children involved.
The services offered by the bid must take on different characteristics of an area with the presence of an 'observer guarantor' of the welfare of the child, to an intervention that responds to a specific request of the Judiciary (Marzotto, Dallanegra, 1998). It makes
therefore necessary background characteristics of flexibility and permeability that have been identified:
1. systemic model in family trigenerazionale (approach which emerged mainly through the studies and research Selvin Scabini, squeaks, Galimberti, Mombelli, Iafrate and others of the Catholic University of Milan) with regard to the identification and interpretation of the problems and nuclei intervention;
2. family mediation in the implementation of procedures and techniques for conflict resolution.

In the work presented here are defined in particular: o To
reference theoretical background: the concept of family and legamecon the identification of the elements of prosperity and development of the individual elements to be preserved even in situations of separation, indipendentementedal reason for the separation itself. The conflict and the vital function that assumenel context of the mediation, a neutral
· Space Verona
· action of the operators as subjects of mediation and lefunzioni pursued by them;
· the mediation techniques used.

theoretical background reference
The family bond

The interpretive paradigm and change the identity of the family and developed by Scabini Cigoli (2000) and called symbolic-relational paradigm defines the family in its structural components that identify it as an organization different from other organizations.
According to this paradigm, the family is defined as specific and unique organization that binds and holds together the original and fundamental human differences, those between genders (male and female), between generations (parents and children) and among lineages (maternal and paternal family tree) and that 'as a project objective and intrinsic generativity' (Scabini-Iafrate, 2003).
What distinguishes the family from other forms of organization and group is the relationship that develops between its components. The links that are established it (marriage, between parents and children, including relatives) will identify the identity and form 'the basis for the formation and spread the emotional part of individuals' (Scabini, Cigoli 2000). Family ties
characteristics, as claimed Scabini (in Scabini, Iafrate, 2003), which are useful for the formulation of our models of intervention in what they are:
· primary: the subjects are related to one another as individuals;
· hierarchically structured: the family is a group of parianche if by some boards can be established generational peer relationships;
° referred by both emotional aspects of care, both from the ethical vincoloe of responsibility.

for each individual is what binds the report, even unknowingly, the subject among themselves, is what has been settled and will sediment in terms of rituals, values, myths and patterns of relationships. It is therefore 'array of anthropological and psychological development of the individual' (Scabini-Cigoli, 2000).
The links that are built make it possible to learn how to respond to the moments of life as well as help the individual to overcome the sense of loneliness and abandonment by a feeling of belonging. N
importance of protecting the bond in a neutral space

The family bond is the basis on which 'form and develop the emotional part of every individual' (Scabini, squeaks, 2000).
The welfare of each individual seen in the present and projected into the future, depends largely on establishing links and relationships with their families and the ability to understand and process the situations and events of life, although sad and sometimes tragic .
Numerous studies performed in Italy (Cigoli, 1998) that examined the effects on children of separation that resulted in the removal of one parent, have highlighted how the instability of the family relationship in children arouse feelings of fear, anger and guilt leading them to express their discomfort through different behaviors: aggression, regression, easy tears, continued refuge in fantasies of 'reintegration' family or other.
E 'was also highlighted as the development of such feelings and the evolution of the living and the child's behavior resulting in' relief 'of the illness, and related factors in addition to age and time, also to' how parents can keep the relationship between them and their children '(Beal, 1980). In high-conflict situations, the pain in their children can have a material impact on their future development.
Situations di separazione causate da eventi quali la carcerazione di un genitore, la limitazione della potestà genitoriale per incuria, l'incapacità, l'abuso o altri gravi motivi che comportano l’allontanamento ‘forzato’ del figlio da uno o entrambi i genitori, rendono complessa ma necessaria l’elaborazione dei sentimenti di paura, rabbia e colpa per permettere il ‘riannodarsi del legame genitoriale’ (Cigoli, 1998).
Per i minori e i propri genitori mantenere il rapporto anche in situazioni gravissime significa mantenere il legame da un punto di vista ‘biologico-storico della relazione’, significa dare la possibilità di accesso alle proprie radici aumentando la possibilità di ‘elaborare i significati che avere quei genitori, quei nonni o quei figli comporta’ (Cigoli in Marzotto, Dallanegra, 1998).
La creazione di uno spazio neutro dove vengono attivate modalità di tutela del legame e delle sue funzioni, dove i genitori vengono aiutati ad esplicitare e a tener conto dei bisogni dei figli in funzione generativa implica la scelta di tecniche di intervento che oltre alla clinica e alla psicoterapia facciano riferimento alla mediazione.

Funzione della genitorialità

Mantenere in atto la funzione genitoriale permette di mantenere in atto il legame, permette al genitore di trasmettere le proprie scelte e attraverso they express and make their ability to care, and child to feel cared for and protected (Cigoli, 1998). The pact
parental guarantees the presence of child protection issues and empathy typical code of breast and emancipatory aspects of order and justice typical of the paternal code (Scabini, squeaks, 2000).
The ideal relationship in situations of separation and divorce would be that of the cooperative and consensual parenting by parents in relation to children. In addition to having guaranteed access to both races this attitude does not encourage a healthy emotional development by reducing the tensions caused by feelings of loyalty toward the father or mother that the children feel in situations of conflict.
Camara and Resnick (in Cigoli, 1998) show that positive cooperation in parenting has positive effects on children even if parents are in conflict on other issues.
Building a space where you can pick up the threads of parenting fits a suspended task facing both the individual and to society because it allows individuals to exercise the right of the 'gift' (Cigoli, 1998) in its value of gratuity and reciprocity, and the community to have 'regulated relations' and play a role in prevention of trying to maintain a healthy relationship between children and adults of reference.

Separazioni: ‘il diritto di visita’ nel divorzio e nelle separazioni coatte

Ogni forma di separazione si configura come transizione critica della famiglia e come tale porta con sé situazioni di sofferenza (Scabini, Iafrate, 2003).
Ci sono famiglie nelle quali la discordia derivata dall’interruzione del patto coniugale può permanere per lungo tempo anche dopo il divorzio e rendere difficile, a volte impossibile, per un figlio la frequentazione del genitore non affidatario.
In altre situazioni la lontananza abitativa di un genitore può rendere ‘senza posto’ l’incontro con il figlio o ridursi a luoghi come ristoranti o giardinetti where the possibility of exchange becomes difficult.
In other contexts there may have been more parental behavior harmful to the mistreatment of children for whom custody was required for expulsion to a third party.
Then there are adults who are incarcerated for crimes the most diverse and from which children are 'necessarily' separate.
In those situations where problems can be serious and where there is a chronic disease of their parents, increasing doubts about the possibility of recovery of parenting skills and therefore a real possibility to re-establish relations.
"The right of access is established by law the right of persons to keep alive the historical biological roots of which the mind can not nonalimentarsi. But the law, which refers to the rule and the rule of Community law is anchela secure base from which to move towards the dock salvaguardiadelle relations between generations and even of their recovery "(Cigoliin Marzotto, Dallanegra, 1998). The Neutral Space
provides pathways to support parents varied depending on the situation: it is essential to access the child to both parents even in the presence of a serious assessment of the damage or suffering caused by the report.
In simpler situations the support can range from a place to meet all’osservazione silenziosa degli operatori.
Nelle situazioni più difficili le prescrizioni del Tribunale e la valutazione clinica del danno e della sua ‘riparabilità’ costituiscono elementi chiave nel predisporre il processo di avvicinamento al genitore maltrattante.
Laddove il danno ricevuto dal figlio sia riconosciuto come un reato per il genitore e la relazione sia normata dal Tribunale, la funzione dello Spazio Neutro si esplica nella salvaguardia del figlio e nell’aiutarlo ad elaborare attraverso gli incontri protetti con il genitore il che cosa e il perché è avvenuto. Al genitore offre, nell’aiutarlo ad accedere alla propria ‘generatività’ (Scabini, Iafrate, 2003), la possibilità to break the chronicity of abuse and begin a process of repairing the damage (Vassalli, Training Course for Technical Consultant - 2001). However
not always the amount of damage suffered through physical abuse, emotional, sexual or psychological corresponds to a recognition of crime, in which case the function of Neutral Space will be to bring out the seriousness and potential danger of the report, giving the way to a path of 'recognition'.
The rationale that supports the right of the child to have access to parents, even in situations where generativity is expressed with great difficulty lies in the recognition by a di vista relazionale dell’importanza per il figlio di collocarsi all’interno della coppia per trovare le proprie radici e per poter pensare ad un avvenire possibile (Cigoli, 1998).

SPAZIO NEUTRO a Verona

La conoscenza del lavoro svolto all’interno di Spazi Neutri in Italia e all’estero, ha permesso di usufruire di parametri di confronto utili nella scelta delle metodologie di intervento.

Intervento di terzi: gli operatori
La funzione degli operatori all’interno dello Spazio Neutro di Verona è molteplice e diversificata: il gruppo ha caratteristica multidisciplinare (Psychotherapists, psychologists, educators, mediators, educators, social workers) and individual expertise are used in a cooperative context especially in the analysis of the application, the planning stage of the process of defining and identifying operational who will assume the responsibilities of the job.
expressing the third to be conflicting reports, operators say the presence of social and law clearly requiring that the child is not property of the person who creates it is a social good and as such must be protected.
The neutral space, is configured as a 'place of transition' and the plight of workers in situations less complex is to be 'between':
· the anxieties and concerns of foster parents who need someone to reassure them and takes care of their concerns;
· the desire to 'recover the child', and the desire to demonstrate their capabilities that often accompanies the request for riconoscimentoda the non-custodial parent;
· the tensions, fears, desires that their children have and necessitanodi be translated and shown to adults to stop the process of triangulation.

In more complex situations and where there is an intervention of the Court's request, or social workers, being 'between' operator problematizes it: their task is to facilitate, into a 'transitional symbolic-links', 'space-time gift' and 'space-time construction of dikes' (Cigoli, 1998 ).
The problem that comes their way is to be able to cope with the impending danger, damage in the exchange between generations, and the hardship they are facing and is often active against abusive parents. The use of normativity intrinsic to the intervention of the Court facilitates the implementation of intervention models that help build contenutivi boundaries in maltreating families are often lacking.
Pain that rages within a given operator is useful to provide information about emotions and the recognition of how these emotions affect the meetings. The indicators to be considered are: 'organizational and methodological impasse, inhibition of criticism, feelings of weakness and distress' (Vassalli, Training Course for Technical Consultant - 2001).
The risk of an alliance with the suffering in these situations is high: a continued oversight is necessary to promote awareness of what is going through and not to act in an unconscious way 'between' the 'emotional configurations of the victim' s aggressor, and the savior of the witness. These configurations are borrowed from psychopathology '(Vassalli, Training Course for Technical Consultant - 2001).

The position of the operators from the perspective of mediation

In determining the operator's position and its role has tried to take into account the complexity and variety of types of families and situations with which it operates.
After some changes in recent times has been referred to the division of family mediation models proposed by Mazzei (Mazzei, 2002) and is considered as the criterion for distinguishing the 'mode of dealing with the relationship dynamics and subjective experience with respect to the separation in the relationship of mediation' (Mazzei, 2002).
In some situations or moments in the same location as the operator's role is to be 'the guardian of the decision-making and care above all of the pragmatic aspects of the meetings' that the child has with the non-custodial parent (Haynes and Buzzi, 1996). In other
may be appropriate to take (structured model) positions blocking the negative impact of the emotional factor, and the operator puts heavy emphasis on task and on the solution of the problem 'severely limiting the scope of the negotiations' (Coogler in Mazzei, 2002).
For some interventions may be necessary to refer to an interdisciplinary model where the operator's work in Neutral Space is co-adjuvanted vaccine, with parents, the work of outsiders such as social workers, lawyers or educators who work with domestic children. In this regard, it highlights the central role of the operator of SN as a promoter of networking. Sometimes it had to do real work of mediation with the other actors involved, whether they are voluntary associations that somehow deal with the case, social workers or lawyers.
has proven its usefulness in some situations addressed in Verona Area neutral to work with parents as well as in joint or individual sessions, with the children creating a special area for them with the aim of helping them through games and stories to express the fears and tensions that are creating suffering.

mediation in the management of a neutral space

Because space is a neutral space for mediation?

Why is a space where thought can give meaning to a different act, so as to become "camera settling the conflict," because is a space of thoughts and actions to enhance functional recovery of parenting, because it is a place where it is held in this central feature of the future than in the past.
is a space for mediation because all the shares that are held in place a balance of management time and space:
a) accept the child with those who accompanied him (usually the mother)
b), insert the words with the parent "other";
c) to be alone with the child (fundamental transition area);
d) to be alone with the parents, "other";
s) match between child and parent;
f) detachment from the parent "more "
g) return to the parent.

is a place where disorder is containment dike which included the development and acceptance, and where the operator works to restore communication between different family members with the objective of facilitating access to children to their roots.
The objective of Neutral Space is unclear but its achievement is not pursued at all costs. It is not in fact make a defense to the bitter end of parental reports: there is a "well-being of children" which sometimes dramatically, requires cutting of the interaction with the biological parents (Marzotto, Dallanegra, 1998). This event is accompanied by a "penalty" on the part of Magistrates.
While the Judiciary is responsible for sanctioning the breakup of the covenant as a function of parental protection of the child, it acts as a neutral space to accept the suffering and violence that this decision brings and to help the child to 'understand 'the reason for the decision.

methodologies and techniques

in carrying out the methodologies to be used within the interventions Neutral Space reference was made to pedagogical methods, psychotherapy and family mediation.
Have been borrowed from psychology methods in the game, empathic listening, assertive language, the use of stories and fairy tales in a symbolic function, to achieve autonomy and self-esteem.
psychotherapy has been borrowed from the technique of interview relationships.

The interdisciplinary flavor offers the possibility of applying different solutions according to the types of family and extent of the problem.
The usefulness of family mediation is most evident in the early stages of acceptance of the family, the activation process of sharing the child's welfare, in giving meaning 'other' to the suffering of letting express and contain the conflict and provide moments of contact between individuals.

Selection criteria

The preferential option for its techniques and methods of systemic family mediation follows:
or having organized the Neutral Space in such a way as not to limit it to only one protected area of \u200b\u200bparent-child meeting but a place to expand access to races;
or believe that the difficulties relating to the exercise of rights of access arising in the conflict between parents. It is therefore essential objective to restore and develop communication between the parents themselves, helping them to overcome problems related to the couple from those inherent in their role as father and mother (Marzotto, Dallanegra, 1998);
or see that the operator's position is to "be among "and to take on a temporary basis of their parent and then return them once reactivated resources;
or the need for the operator to maintain an equal distance from their parents so that they understand they may have in common" object "with someone who have come to hate (Mandelli in Marzotto, Dallanegra, 1998);
or try to keep the look of the parents toward the future and not to passato.
Un ulteriore criterio adottato nel definire quali tecniche usare è quello di fare riferimento ai diversi modelli di mediazione e ai diversi ruoli che gli operatori è opportuno assumano in funzione dell’obiettivo.
Viene di seguito presentato un elenco di tecniche utilizzate:
· valutazione della situazione attraverso l’analisi della domanda;
· accoglimento e contenimento della sofferenza attraverso l’ascoltoempatico e la ridefinizione del problema;
· attenuazione del conflitto attraverso l’esplicitazione deisuoi significati, problem solving, brainstorming;
· evidenziazione dell’aspetto simbolico degli oggetti del contendere;
· centratura dell’interesse sul figlio;
· attivazione di abilità di cooperazione partendo dalla condivisionedei problemi;
· negoziazione;
· interazione di gioco;
· disegno congiunto;
· empowerment;
· collages.
Le varie tecniche vengono proposte tenendo conto delle diverse tipologie delle famiglie e della complessità del problema.

Spazio Neutro: descrizione dell’esperienza dell’IVTF diVerona

Situazione dei minori affidati in Veneto

Nell’ambito della protezione e tutela del minore, la legislazione from national laws: L 184/83, L 285/97 L149/01 until recently supported a path that recognizes the full right to live in the child's family, and provides its eventual removal only where they are all technically feasible possible actions to support the family dimension.
In 1997 in the Veneto Region was established Regional Centre for Children and Adolescents, which means the database Children with special cards on the following six months every child in foster care given to family homes or institutions.
In 2000 the family had children removed by 2204, equal to 1.8 per thousand of the child population.
33% was given in trust family structure 67%, 51% in group homes, 16% in an institution. Wind
Region 71.6% of the type of judicial custody were 28.4% and the type of agreement.
The majority of children living in institutions has been included for reasons family relationship (40%).
The fragility and the disintegration of the family of origin affect 54% of children in foster care: among the reasons predominate in the conduct of absolute abandonment and / or severe neglect, drug problems and serious economic problems.

Separations and divorces: ISTAT in 2000

separations and divorces in Italy gradually increased over the period 1995-2000, an increase of 37.5% of separations and 39% of divorces.
consensual separation is the type of separation most frequently chosen by the spouses.
average in 2000 ended in this way, 86.4% of cases, while the remaining 13.6% is rite with litigation.
21% of instances of separation comes from spouses who were married less than five years earlier.
In 2000 in northern families with children who have lived the experience of separation were 18,185, up 45.3%, and the divorce of 7405 amounted to 33.6%.
The percentage of children entrusted exclusively the mother is 84 .8% to 25,344, only 4.8% have been contracted on an exclusive to the father.
The number of credit lines to his father grows over contracts awarded to the mother, with the raising of children.
The frequency of access to children by the non-custodial parent is 1-3 times a month in 10.7% of cases, sometimes in 1 year, 4% of cases, never in 0.4%.

structural setting of the Neutral Area project in Verona

The statistics above have supported the need to create a neutral space in Verona, a city absolutely devoid of similar structure.
In most situations of separation and divorce in nearly all those relating to custody of children to others there is a difficulty for the child to meet grandparents and relatives of a family, if not both.

· It is a service for the exercise of rights of access;
· It is a place of encounter between children and their families;
· It is a place where children can resume their family and relations difficilicon exercise their right to maintain relations;
• To parents and adults is a place to resolve conflicts affrontaree the minimum necessary to allow the reconstruction of broken links (Marzotto and Dallanegra, 1998);
· It is neutral because it is not dinessuno property and it is suspended and neutralizes the discord (Cigoli 1998);
· It is a third place and not belonging to none of the contenders, which can help parents recognize the need and the child to see dirittodel respected his affections;
· Open the chance to rediscover their history, cuinon is only a custodian of the two warring parties;
· You qualified container outside the contentions of the parents, to learn how to safeguard the continuity of the parent-figlioin a time bounded (Mandelli-Dallanegra Marzotto in 1998);
· It is a place where you help parents to take separatoil marital conflict by the parent-child relationship (in Dolto Marzotto, Dallanegra, 1998).

space is structured so that they can accept:
• The child and its right "to maintain personal relationships direct contact with both parents" (Cigoli, 1998);
· The couples undergoing conflictual separation;
· The couples undergoing separation or divorce with difficulty adattuare the right to visit and / or violence with danger;
· The families with multiple,
· The decrees restricting families with of parental responsibility;
· Children with parents in prison or measures limitanola liberty;
· The foster families and individuazionedi of origin for the common meanings in the education of children;
· requests of the judiciary responsible for ' accertamentosulle possibilities / opportunities for continued relazionegenitoriale;
· requests for hearings of the judiciary protected.

For each subject that will appeal to the Neutral Space is a schematic type of service:
• The child may benefit from a place to meet / igenitori, family to restore vital links to its 'correct' crescitapsicofisica through the reconstruction of relations between generations. Taleluogo is a protected environment where they can be helped elaborareeventi families at high risk of pain and guilt.
· The parents can find support and to increase parental esprimerele their resources with the objective of maintaining and / or reconstruct rapportitra generations, and maintain the functions of the parental couple.
• The Court may use the Neutral Space for averevalutazioni on parenting skills, on the parent-child, extended family relationships, and physical space to fit audizioniprotette.
· The Public Service may, in turn, benefit from valutazionidelle parenting skills, assessments of the parent-child, and measures facilitating the recovery of the reports.
access to space can be neutral or degliavvocati personal request, or to statutory mandates.

general working mode

For each situation, the team of operators defines the meaning of demand and dell'inviante, identify requirements and outlines possible outcomes, including establishing a route criteria for monitoring and verification, the operator identifies most appropriate and reports to whom it may concern if the warrant is institutional.

The operator who takes office processes the program and identifies specific intervention strategies can be shared with users.
are considered as indicators of compliance with appointments and punctuality on the part of parents, the reduction of violent or disruptive behavior in relationship dynamics, and the reduction of the manifestations of illness of children.

Location and physical structure of the Neutral Space

The site is located in an area easily accessible and with parking. Nearby there are shops of different types: this situation is considered important for the possibility that parents may have to take the time to wait or hang out with the child, in accordance with the operator.
used professional equipment allows the recording of interventions and the presence of observers from outside through one-way mirror.
The room where the meetings take place of the parent with the child is equipped with structured games and non-functional interaction.
is also possible to use a bathroom equipped for changing and cleaning of small children.
It is also given the opportunity to prepare hot drinks and piccolecolazioni.

Considerations

When two essential truths collide, the possibility of transformation takes place only through the enhancement of the aspects of change that the conflict brings. In this vision Mediation can resume the dignity offended by the "insults" and end the violent expression of feelings.
The conflict is often interpreted as a situation that must be paid to anti-social or removed in silence: the role of mediation is to give voice to the words the conflict, and therefore the pain caused by feelings of anger, sadness, resentment, betrayal that accompany situations of rupture of relations.
The opportunity to "give voice" to the pain allows individuals to think that pain can be healed because he has been given the dignity of life (Morineau, 1998). Provide a space within which the pain of the parents can be put together with the pain of the children, and where third encourages the encounter of words, the act helps to repair the damage caused by violence. Within the Neutral Space
the "voice" to the suffering allows, as we have seen, to put a limit to violence. The "speak out" gives space to the word and aims to move from one state to another, allowing the comparison with the unjust and painful event and with it the possibility of a transformation.
The use of techniques derived from the Family Mediation System allows exceeding the greater risk that you can meet in a neutral space: one concerning the fact that 'the meeting between the parent and the child take place, but only so Specifically, without really taking place 'and without the operator being aware that it is not really happened (in Codignola Marzotto, Dallanegra, 1998).
does not appear simple. Means often fail to go beyond not only what others make us look but also what we would like to see.


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books, what a passion!
As a child I dreamed of buying a library to be able to afford a free all books that I wanted, I grew up I began to buy up to aumentarea proportion to the area, home studio destinata alle librerie, con gravepregiudizio per lo spazio e il portafoglio. La cosiddetta maturità miha portato ad apprezzare sempre più il piacere dello scambio e della condivisione,anche se, come so di molti, ho ancora qualche remora a prestare fisicamente imiei adorati libri. Mi è però molto piaciuto scoprire ed aderireal movimento dei libri in movimento, versione italiana del bookcrossing, di cuipotete trovare notizie su alcuni siti dedicati (ad esempio www.fahrenheit.rai.it,www.librinmovimento.firenze.net, www.liberliber.it e altri) L’idea di lasciareche i libri che ci sono piaciuti viaggino tra le mani della gente, e attraversoil loro messaggio costruiscano una rete di relazioni virtuali, organizzata dalleemozioni che la loro reading has been able to give us, I thought that was particolarmenteintrigante. In line with this spirit, I hope to deal with this book, intended to talk about non-technical literature. But there will then questagrande difference between books written with a clear intention to disclose the relevant concepts, theories and books written for our profession to be "simply" read? To you to find answers and connections in the spirit of irreverence Cheh able to indicate Gianfranco Cecchin, reading a classic with the meticulousness Concu you can manage a manual for the correct operation sistemicoo approaching a book of theories and cases with the lightness of the reader deibei stories before bedtime.
await recommendations and reviews of Italian and foreign books that possanoessere interesting for readers and stimulating starting point for trade diidee. Books that talk about families, relationships and conflicts, but not limited to, books that you think would be an incentive to open their minds and hearts, libriche make us dream, laugh, reflect and learn more about ourselves and sulmondo .
who want to make a contribution to this column can send brevirecensioni or suggested reading accompanied by references (title, author, publisher, pages, and no cost) to my e-mail address: rositamarinoni@moretto.it
Pending to receive your reports, which many hope for questonumero I suggest reading:

THE Fabbricone, Giovanni Testori, Oscar Mondadori, 194 pp, 7 and
In one book many themes and contexts that make us think about relationships and conflicts: the troubled love story of a young couple, the interference of the original families, divided by political differences and religious, ideological and social conflicts in the neighborhood. The whole set of a tower block in the micro population in the suburbs of Milan, where, in a choral, interwoven stories about illusions, frustration, neurosis, everyday worries. In its release the book became an immediate best-seller, wake of the outcry over the suspension of another theatrical performances by Testori, the HAROLD, staged by Visconti
The author was stone of scandal in the culture of the sixties, under attack from critics and censorship and source of conflict between the intellectuals for this and other works that went beyond and against the spirit of conservative and puritanical era.
Testori was playwright and literary journalist, poet, art critic and painter, a great entertainer and provocateur of the intellectual life of his time in Milan. He worked on screenplays with big directors like Luchino Visconti, who was taken from the series "The Secrets of Milan" di cui “Il Fabbricane” fa parte, la trama di “Rocco e i suoi fratelli”.
Nell’ottantesimo anniversario dalla nascita e decimo dalla morte lo scorso anno a Milano gli sono state dedicate numerose mostre, iniziative e rappresentazioni teatrali, tra cui quella del Fabbricone, che ha avuto luogo nel cortile dell’edificio di Novate Milanese che, con il suo scenario e i suoi abitanti, si vuole abbia ispirato l’autore.

Rosita Marinoni
cmsbateson@tiscali.it

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NEWS MAGAZINE OF MEDIATION

The Editorial Board of the Journal has given me the task of curareuna column dedicated to the review of the most interesting articles attinentila family mediation that may appear on the various Italian magazines edestere dealing with families and children:
In this first phase, with the invaluable generosity of Dr. CostanzaMarzotto we have enough already provided a list of magazines valela penalty "keep an eye on."
was reported so that everyone can see it and to enrich altreriviste pointing to the following email address:
m.vetere @ aliceposta.it .

Dr. Rodolfo de Bernart dell'AIMS in his capacity as President, has pledged to contact the individual editorial boards to attivareuna fruitful collaboration for cultural exchange.

Marcello Vetere m.vetere @ aliceposta.it

CISF REVIEWS MEDIATION ITALY Italian magazines

  • Aiaf Observatory - see: www.crescere insieme.org-
  • Social Animation - tel 0113841046 paper copies
  • Welfare
  • Connections - see: www.terapiafamiliare.org / rivista_connessioni
  • Family Clinics Today - Largo F. Vito 1, 00168 Rome, tel 063017820
  • On Crimes and Punishments - ceased publication in 2000 Defense
  • social - service request from the library, documentation and publishing institution, Via Pasquale Stanislao Mancini, 28 - 00196, Rome
  • Ecology of mind - and drawing office: Via Dandolo 24-00153 Roma
  • Tel: 065897607
  • social experience - c.so V. Emanuele 463, 90134 Palermo
  • Family - subscriptions office tel 0302993246
  • Psychoanalytic Perspectives in Family and Children Work institutional
  • Borgo Vittorio 88-00193 Roma, Tel: 0668210276
  • Family Today - Via Giotto 36, 20145 Milano, Tel: 0248071
  • family law and Individuals - see: www.giuffre.it and Via La Farina 29,
  • 90141 Palermo, Tel: 091301272
  • Movement
  • Social Work
  • maltreatment and child abuse - Department of Psychology, University
  • Catholic Heart, Largo Gemelli 1, 20123, Milan, tel: 0277403134
  • Mediares - 42 euro / c / c postale n ° 11639705 made out to Daedalus Publishing Ltd.
  • social policies and services (Life and Thought) - l. go Gemelli 1, 20123 Milan,
  • tel: 0272342369
  • See C. Marzotto, Family mediation: a new profession for the family in social policies and services, 2 / 2002
  • Welfare Perspective - by 36 artists, 10124, Torino, tel: 0118124459
  • social and health perspective - via XX Settembre 24, 20123 Milano,
  • tel 0246764276
  • Psicologia Clinica dello sviluppo
  • Rassegna di servizio Sociale - v.le F. Baldelli 41, 00146 Roma, tel: 06 5410603
  • Rivista di psicologia Relazionale - Via tagliamento 25, 00198 Roma
  • tel 068542130
  • Servizi Sociali
  • Società e Salute
  • Sociologia e politiche Sociali - Ceposs, Dipartimento di sociologia, Strada
  • Maggiore 45, 40125 Bologna, tel:0516403221
  • Studi Interdisciplinari sulla Famiglia, (Vita e Pensiero) - 1.20123 Largo twins, Milan
  • See Scabini E. Rossi G. (Ed.) Rebuild links: mediation in family and community relations, XX, 2003 Writings of Cigoli, Marzotto, Tamanza, Rossi, etc..
  • Studies Zancan
  • Roundtable

MAGAZINES INTERNATIONAL MEDIATION

England

  • British Journal of Social Work
  • Conciliation Courts Review
  • Context
  • Family and Conciliation Courts Review Family Law
  • International and Comaprative law Quarterly
  • Justice System Journal ractice
  • Law and Society Review
  • Law Society ‘s Gazette
  • The British Journal of Social Work

Francia

  • Le groupe Familiale
  • Informations Sociales
  • Revue International Action Comunitain RIAC (Lien Social Politique

Canada

  • Mediation Quarterly
  • Revue de Prévention et de Règlement des Différends

USA

  • America Journal of Orthopsychiatry
  • Family process
  • Journal of Consulting and Clinical Psychology
  • Journal of Social Issues
  • Journal of the National Association of Social Workers
  • Legal Action Group Bulletin
  • Society for Research in Child Development
  • Society Yale Review
  • Clinical Social Work Journal
  • Community Alternatives
  • International Journal of Social Welfare
  • International Social Work
  • Nonprofit and Voluntary Sector Quarterly
  • The Responsive Community

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DALL'AIMS

Lo scorso 28 giugno si è Svolta, presso l'Accademia dei Fisiocritici diSiena, l'Assemblea dei Soci della nostra Associazione, che è ben compostada su tutto il 35 Istituti distribuiti territorio italiano, le eccezione fattaper Calabria regioni e Val d'Aosta, and over 1500 members. Several sonoinoltre centers that have applied for registration to AIMS, including qualivanno remember the IPR of Naples, the ITF of Ferrara and Vicenza.
What follows is, precisely, the minutes of Siena, because we publish can be read by all members.


MINUTES OF THE MEETING held 28 June 2004 at the Academy of Fisiocritici in Siena with the following agenda:

1. Approval of Financial Statement 2003
2. Approved Budget 2004
3. Any other

The General Meeting starts at 17.00 with the President, prof. Rodolfo de Bernart, Vice President Past President, Dr. Fabio Bassoli, the Coordinator of the Teaching Commission, Dr. Joseph Ruggiero, and 15 members.

Step 1: to be read out of the 2003 Financial Statement: The Assembly unanimously approved.
Step 2: to be read out of the budget 2004: The Assembly unanimously approved.
Step 3: is a proposed increase in registration fees AIMS to offset the constraints of the budget, since 2005: The Assembly unanimously approved. The new shares are as follows:
- Partners in training: € 30.00
- Ordinary members: € 70.00
- Members teachers: € 100.00
- Training Centers: € 350.00 (including registration of two teachers chosen by the Centre)
- Mediation Centre: € 170.00

The Assembly is dissolved at 17.20

Rodolfo de Bernart
debernart@itff.org

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Abstract - Abstracts

A Family Systems Approach to Mediation with Families in Transition

L. Parkinson

The work shows how family systems approach could be used by mediators, both to understand structural changes of families passing through separation and divorce, and to help comunicative exchanges inside the new reconstructed family systems, promoting cooperation and supporting the maintenance of a parental relationship between parents. It’s exemplified the “ecogram” method, a modified version of genogram, that make it possible to understand the ecology of the evoluting family system and structure. Functions and strategies that a mediator should use to help family pass through these periods of transition are briefly illustrated.


Parental Fuctioning in reconstructed families

Chantal Van Cutsem

This work defines and analizes reconstructed family’s structure and the problem of shared parental fuction.
When we meet children or adolescents whose parents are separated, we should deal with familiy systems differing from the classic nuclear family (father – mother –child). Taking responsability for separating or reconstructing families does set the issue of the parental fuctions’ sharing. Which are the parental fuctions leading our young patients’ education? Which are our representations of these new family structures?
In the practice, the young patients are invited for a talk with their involved family members and more generally with all the parental fuctions around them. Each reconstructed family will present a different situation, in which biological, legal and affective functions could be shared by more different persons. These situations need a new representation of family structure and an action adjusted in a specific way to each system. Some theorical concepts about this problem will be presented and some elements of therapeutic practice will be illustrated through two clinical cases.


On the tracks of the rising moon bear's fur

Pasquale Busso

Mankind’s wisdom, that express itself through tales, suggests that autonomy is the basic condition for a
parity relationship. Particularly in family mediation, the exchange between reciprocal expectations, that base the couple’s joint, could jeopardize the achievement of a good agreement on the parental level and especially its practical fulfilment. In this work, we explore the way through which two subjects non autonomous could be led toward a position of sufficient freedom to face the common problems concerning the family system’s reorganization. In particular, it’s shown how to lead the two subjects: a) to hear each other, further on the obstruction formed by the other’s claims and attacks and b) to move free from the trammels of the couple’s joint.


For a history of family Mediation

Costanza Marzotto

The Author offers an overview of the history of Family Mediation, starting from the very first experiences in USA and Canada, followed by the arrival in Europe and in Italy of this new approach to couples involved in separation and divorce. The paper offers many quotations and historical references in order to orient the reader in this field.


Family mediation and beyond

Aldo Mattucci

The article is an excursus through the meaning of conflict, the tecniques and the purposes of mediation, and dwells on the investigation about the issues that are involved in the construction of the the couple’s relatioship and of the connection between couple’s joint and it’s possibility to be mediated in case of conflict after separation. The difficulty to bring the parental relationship behind the marital one is closely linked, in the autor’s opinion, to the couple’s ability to rielaborate, after the phase of falling in love, the reciprocal projections about the need that are not been satisfied in the families of origin. If this doesn’t happen, important issues remain open so that it’s not possibile, in case of breaking, the passage to psichological separation, an essential condition to protect the parental relationship. In these cases couple can’t use mediation. Finally it’s proposed the utilization of joined drawing as a preferred tecnique for the mediator to acced to children.


Training in mediation: a technique or just some questions?

Lia Mastropaolo

The Author shows her “Genovese” model of Family Mediation, starting from her experience of trainer in different countries (Italy, Spain) and in different contexts (private, public,University and health services). She states some differences among Mediation, Therapy and Intervention in order to change, Some feed backs provided by students help in claryfying the model of training, centered on questions and on stimulation of creativity instead of giving preorganized solutions.
The model considers how to work on conflict avoiding, and gives importance to children which are present from the first session. The kind of mediation offered is not partila but “integrated”global.


That right tension between the opposites: how to become a mediator

Giuseppe Ruggiero

If the mediator’s main task is receiving the vital and constructive part of conflict, channeling it’s energy toward those who are the chief developmental tasks and evolutive aims of the system, the difficulty is just managing to attune in an effective way all the tensions met during training, first, and practice in mediation, then.
A sort of hurdle path, where contradiction is the rule and seeking for creative solutions, to maintain the right tension between opposite polarities, the goal.
The author finds out five dialectic polarities that go along with the complex work of constructing the mediator’s identity, and proceeds on a brief examination.
The article ends with the hope that AIMS’s Didactic Board could give more and more impulse to research of new training models, improving learning quality and the mediation practice itself.


Family Mediation e professional deontology - Thoughts in progress

Francesco Mazzei
Bruno Schettini

The mediation offer, with the individual and social expectations that it produces, demands the operator to be trained in an adequate way on one side, and, on the other, a clear code of ethics, definite in a congruent way, that protects the professional acting of mediation with common rules betwwen those who practise, as in the client’s intersest.
This contribution complains about the legislative vacuum characterizing new intellectual professions so-called non-regulated, and tries to give a juridical-formative and psychosocial contest tha, in some way, could consider the normative and paranormative aspects following marriage and separation.
The work’s authors, after defining the areas in which the mediation process is applied: juridical and psichosocial, underlining, in a comparative and synoptic frame, the self-regulating rules in use in the different mediation professional societies and framing the issue inside the civil regulations existing about the practice of intellectual professions relatively to the exact fulfilment of the obligation of means and not of result, opening the reflection about future possible scenery.


Listening to the minor during the family mediation session. Use of the “Lausanne Triadic Play”

Paola Aldinucci
Giancarlo Francini

TThis work starts from the analysis of children’s experiences in the conflict between separating parents. Children are in the middle of the conflict, doing functions, having inner wishes but also strong wills, not always conscious. Recent legislation in matter acknowledges to the underage the right to be heard in any proceeding involving him directly. This is not simple and dangerous, even for the specialists. On one side there is the necessity to hear their wishes, on the other to understand that wishes’ meaning. Listening to the underages in the family mediation context means therefore helping the parents to understand the realtionship between them and their children in this exact time of their life, so to make their words and their wishes comprehensible.
Here we describe a methodology using the “Lousanne Triadic Play” and videotaping. Besides acknowledging the child’s active role in the family dynamics, and his right to be heard and to partecipate, ratified by law, this methodology also represents an effective technique to be used by mediators helping the couple to keep on being parent together.


The family mediation as preferred method in “neutral space” intervention.

Giovanna Lonardi
Tiziana Mantovani

The protection of family ties is the presupposition on which the Neutral Space interventions are based.
In this article the authors re-examine the teorethical foundations of such service, referring to the sistemic familiy trigenerationl model and highlighting the importance of family tie and parental functions particulalrly.
Describing the Neutral Space experience in Verona, they underline the importnce of mediation techniques as preferred instruments to facilitate the protection of the underages’ hystory and experiences.


The role of the lawyer in the family mediation

Ana María Sánchez Durán

The collaboration between lawyers and family mediators is one of the basic requisites to get family mediation working. After reflecting on the relationship between family mediation and Law and on the communication difficulties between mediators and lawyers, the different roles of the lawyers relating to mediation and the advantages of their collaboration through the mediation process will be examined. Subsequently I will talk about the mediator with a legal background and about the deontological consequences of their practise. Finally, I will mention the use of mediation techniques by a lawyer that works in a family legal process.

Une approche systémique-relationnelle à la médiation avec familles en transition

L. Parkinson

This paper presents and illustrates the use of systemic-relational approach by those working in the field of mediation, both to understand the structural changes of the families who pass through the separation and divorce, to facilitate the exchange of communications in the new reconstituted family systems, encouraging cooperation and promote the maintenance of a parental role and relationship between the parents. It exemplifies the method of "écogramme", that is to say, a simplified model du génogramme qui permet de comprendre l’écologie de la structure et du système familial en évolution.
On illustrera aussi brièvement les fonctions et les stratégies que le médiateur doit développer afin que le passage des familles à travers ces périodes de transition soit facilité.


Les fonctions parentales dans les familles recomposées

Chantal Van Cutsem

Ce travail présente et analyse la structure de famille recomposée ainsi que le problème du partage des fonctions parentales.
Lorsque on rencontre des enfants ou des adolescents dont les parents sont séparés, on est confronté à des systèmes familiaux différents de la famille nucléaire habituelle (père – mère – enfant).
La prise en charge des familles en voie de séparation ou de recomposition pose la question du partage des fonctions parentales. Quelles sont les fonctions parentales qui assument l’éducation de nos jeunes patients? Quelles sont nos représentations de ces nouvelles structures familiales ? Nos jeunes patients sont invités pour une consultation ainsi que les membres de sa famille qui sont concernés et en tous cas les fonctions parentales qui l’entourent. Chaque famille recomposée present a different situation where the biological functions, legal and emotional can be spread over different people. These situations involve a new representation of family structures and suitable work with each of these systems.
theoretical concepts will be presented on these issues and elements of practice will be illustrated through two clinical situations.


On the trail of hair on the bear's moon croissantde

Pasquale Busso

wisdom of humanity, expressed in fairy tales, offers autonomy as a basis for a relationship of parity. In family mediation in particular, the exchange of mutual expectations, basing the nesting pair, may threaten the achievement of good agreement in terms of parenthood and especially its practical implementation. In this work explores the medium through which two individuals are not autonomous can be driven to a position of mutual freedom sufficient to address the most common problems concerning the reorganization of the family system. Be illustrated by particular, how to bring the two topics: a) listening to the other, beyond the barriers formed by the attacks and claims and b) move freed from the shackles of the nesting pair.


For a history of family mediation

Costanza Marzotto

The author runs through the entire history of the Family Mediation, from First American and Canadian experiences to the finish in Europe after Italy and this new approach to couples being separated. The article is accompanied by an extensive bibliography and several historical references so that readers can easily navigate.


Family Mediation and something else

Aldo Mattucci

This paper presents an overview of the themes of conflict, techniques and goals of mediation. It explores the issues involved in the process of construction of torque and it examines the link between engagement and torque possibility of mediation in conflict after separation. According to the author, the difficulties encountered in the passage of the parental role beyond Conjugality are inevitably linked to the ability of the couple, learned after the phase of love, to revise projections for the mutual needs dissatisfied at the heart of families of origin.
If the review is missing, the most significant issues remain open and they will not, in case of failure, switching to a psychological separation that is essential to the function Parental safeguarded. For these couples mediation becomes impossible. The article then proposes the use of the technique of drawing spouse as the preferred means of access to children.


Training in Mediation: a technique or simply have questions?

Lia Mastropaolo

The author presents his model "Genoese" Family Mediation from his formative experiences lived in different countries (Italy and Spain) and in different environments (University, Institutes of Public Health Institutes and private). It also clarifies the differences among mediation, therapy and intervention oriented to change. The feedback from students can also inform this model of training is not to provide artificial solutions but that is to ask questions, encourage and stimulate. The model predicts
make contact with the conflict rather than refuse them, it also considers the importance of children who are present at the first sitting, he finally refuses mediation biased choosing instead a comprehensive and complete.


Cette bonne tension entre les opposés. Comment devenirmédiateur

Giuseppe Ruggiero

S’il est du devoir principal du médiateur d’accueillir l’esprit vital et constructif du conflit, concentrant son énergie dans les responsabilités et dans les buts évolutifs du système, alors la difficulté consistera à réussir à harmoniser de façon efficace toutes les tensions qu’on rencontre d’abord pendant la formation, puis pendant l’exercice de la médiation. Il s’agit a kind of hurdle race where the contradiction is the rule and the search for creative solutions, capable of maintaining the proper tension between opposite poles, is the goal. The author then describes five core dialectics that accompany the complex work of building the identity of the mediator, he then proceeded to examine them carefully. The author hopes that the Commission Teaching of AIMS can always give an impetus to research new formative models for improving the quality of learning and, therefore, exercise of the mediation.


Family Mediation and professional ethics - réflexionsin progress.

Francesco Mazzei - Bruno Schettini

The offer of mediation in relation to individual expectations and social demands on one side than the professional is properly trained, and on the other side the presence of ethics clearly and accurately. This will allow the act to save the mediator, thanks to common provisions for professionals and the client's interest. The paper deplores the legislative gap regarding the exercise of the new so-called intellectual professions without rules, and provides a legal context, formative and psychosocial aspects considered normative and Para-Legal Institute on Marriage and the separation. The authors first define the application areas of mediation (legal and psychosocial) and after they highlight, in a synoptic comparison, self-discipline laws in force in different societies professional mediation.
They manage this problem and in the midst of civil standards in force exercise intellectual professions in relation particularly to the fulfillment of obligations means instead of the results and they bring to reflect on possible paths in the future.


Play the minor in the process of family mediation. Utilisationdu "Lausanne Triadic Play

Paola Francini Aldinucci
Giancarlo

This work by analyzing the experiences of children who are in the middle of conflicts of parents being separation. Children vivent au milieu du conflit où ils exercent des fonctions précises avec des désirs intimes mais aussi avec une forte volonté qui ne sont pas toujours conscients. La législation récente reconnaît au mineur le droit d’être écouté dans chaque procès qui le concerne directement. Cet aspect est assez compliqué et hérissé d’obstacles même pour les spécialistes. D’une part il y a la nécessité d’écouter leur désir, de l’autre il y a l’exigence de le comprendre. Ecouter les mineurs dans un contexte de médiation familiale veut dire donc aider les parents à comprendre le rapport entre eux et leurs enfants à un moment précis de leur vie, to render intelligible their words and wishes.
The methodology uses the "Lausanne Triadic Play and videos: it recognizes the child's active role on the dynamics among family and its right to listen and participation, sanctioned by the laws into force. It is also an important technique that mediators can use to help the couple in their goal to continue to be parents together.


Mediation as un'instrument for intervention in "EspaceNeutral"

Giovanna Mantovani Lonardi
Tiziana

Save family relationships is the principle underlying the interventions neutral space.
With this article the authors review the theoretical principles of this type of service refers to the model tri-generational family system and in particular they highlight the importance of family ties and parenting.
In describing their experience as neutral spaces in Verona they underline the importance of mediation techniques as privileged instruments to facilitate the preservation of the history and experiences of minors.


The roles of lawyers in family mediation

Ana Maria Sanchez Duran

collaboration between lawyers and family mediators is one fundamental requisites for family mediation to work. After an introductory
reflection on the one hand, the connections between mediation and family law, and secondly, the difficulties of communication between mediators and lawyers will examine the various roles that lawyers can play in mediation. This last point will be considered particularly with respect to benefits that derive from this collaboration throughout a family mediation.

Subsequently, we will look at the figure of the mediator with a legal background and the consequences of ethical and practical nature. In conclusion, we will consider briefly the use of mediation techniques of the lawyer who acts as such in a trial under the Family Law.

A-Family Systems Approach to Mediation with Families in Transition

L. Parkinson

The work illustrates how the family systems approach can be used by those who work in the field of mediation, is to understand the structural changes of the families going through a separation or divorce is to facilitate communication exchanges within the new reconstituted family systems, promoting cooperation and encouraging the maintenance of a parental relationship between the parents. It exemplifies the method of "sonogram" modified version of the genogram, to capture the structure and ecology of the family system in evolution. They are also briefly illustrated the roles and strategies that the mediator is evoked to be developed to facilitate the passage of the families through these periods of transition.


The parental roles in stepfamilies

Chantal Van Cutsem

This paper describes and analyzes the reconstituted family structure and the problem division of parental roles.
When we find children or adolescents whose parents are separated we must contend with different family systems common to the nuclear family (father-mother-child). Failure to take care of families in the process of separating or reconstitution emphasizes the issue of division of parental roles. What are the parental roles that guide the education of our young patients?. What are our representations of these new family structures?.
In practice, young patients were invited to an interview with members of his own family involved and more generally with all parental roles around them. Every stepfamily presenta una situación diferente donde las funciones biológicas, legales y afectivas pueden ser compartidas por diferentes personas. Tales situaciones requieren una nueva representación de las estructuras familiares y un trabajo adaptado de modo específico para cada sistema.
Se presentarán algunos conceptos teóricos relativos a la problemática expuesta y serán ilustrados a través de dos situaciones clínicas algunos elementos de la práctica terapeútica.


Sobre las huellas del oso de la luna creciente

Pasquale Busso

wisdom of humanity that is expressed in the stories suggests that autonomy is the basic condition for a relationship of parity. Specifically in family mediation, exchange of mutual expectations, that underlie the assembly of groups, may jeopardize the achievement of a satisfactory agreement on parental level and especially its practical realization. This paper explores the way in which non-autonomous two subjects can be conducted to a position of reciprocal free enough to address common problems relating to the reorganization of the family system. Specifically, it illustrates the way in which to bring the two subjects: a) to listen, beyond the barriers formed by the claims and attacks against the other and b) to move freely from the shackles of the mechanisms of the joints obstaculantes partner.


For a history of family mediation

Costanza Marzotto

She realizzativa a journey through the history of family mediation, starting the first American and Canadian experiences, until the discharge of this new type of approach to separating couples in Europe and finally in Italy. It offers many abudant bibliographical references and historical references that allow the reader oriented in this field.


Family Mediation further

Aldo Mattucci

article is a path on the meaning of the confict, the techniques and objectives mediation, and proceed to elaborate on the issues at stake in building the relationship and the bond between the opening of the couple and the possibility of mediation of the same in case of conflict after separation. The difficulty to label the addition to the marital parenthood is strongly connected, according to the author, with the ability that the couple had, after the infatuation stage, to rework the reciprocal protections that have to do with the needs that have remained unsatisfied in families of origin. When it does not stay open very important issues that do not, if it breaks, the passage to the psychological separation, which is essential to foster parenting. In these cases, couples are not mediables. Finally, we suggest the use of technical drawing together as privileged access to children by the mediator.


Training in Mediation: a technique or just questions?

Lia Mastropaolo

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their formative experiences in national contexts and in different environment (Italy and Spain, universities, public health centers and private schools). The author illustrates his Genoese model for mediation training. It also defines the differences between mediation, intervention and therapy for change. Some considerations of the students serve to clarify the training model centered on asking questions, providing encouragement and not the furnishing of preassembled solutions.
The model provides conflict management and not the rejection, take into account the importance of children that are already present from the first session and rejects the partial mediation, choosing instead an integrated global intervention.


appropriate that tension between opposites. As Mediator becomes

Giuseppe Ruggiero

If the fundamental task of the mediator is to collect the vital and constructive conflict, channeling their energy into the main tasks of development and developmental objectives of the system, the difficulty lies precisely in order to harmonize effectively with the stresses encountered during training, initially and practice of mediation later.
a sort of obstacle course where the rule is the contradiction and finding creative solutions that are able to maintain proper tension between opposite poles is a goal.
The author identifies five areas that accompany the complex dialectical construction work on the identity of the mediator, proceeding to a brief examination.
Concluye el artículo con el auspicio para que la Comisión Didáctica del AIMS apoye un mayor impulso de la investigación de nuevos modelos formativos que mejoren la calidad del aprendizaje y por lo tanto, de la práctica misma de la mediación.


Eschuchas al menor en el procedimento de mediacion familiar. Uso del "Lausanne Triadic Play

Paola Aldinucci
Giancarlo Francini

El presente trabajo toma forma del análisis de las vivencias de los niños en medio a los conflictos de los padres que se separan. Los niños navegan the conflict between development roles, with the innermost desires but also with strong wills are not always aware. Recent legislation recognizes the child the right to be heard in every procedimento involving him directly. Something that is not simple and full of dangers, even for specialists. On the one hand it appears necessary to listen to your desire, the other to perceive the meaning of this desire. Then listen to the children in the family mediation context means helping parents accept the relationship between them and the children at that exact moment of his life, so far as to make intelligible words and wishes.
Here we describe a methodology that uses the "Lausanne Triadic Play" and the video recording. In addition to recognizing the child as an active subject role in family dynamics, that the right to listen to and participation established by the legislation, which represents a valid technique that can be used by mediators to help couples to obtain the objective of continuing to act as parents together.


Mediation as a privileged instrument in the Neutral Space intervencionesde

Lonardi
Tiziana Giovanna Mantovani

Safeguarding of family ties is the base budget to the Neutral Space intervento.
In this article the authors review the theoretical foundations of such a service by referring to the three-generational family systems model and showing in particular the importation of family ties and the role of parenthood. Describing
, the experience of neutral space in Verona (Italy) demonstrate the importation of the techniques of mediation as an excellent means to help protect the history and experiences of children.


the Advocate papers Family Mediation in

Ana María Sánchez Durán

collaboration between lawyers and family mediators is one of the fundamental requirements for family mediation to work. After an introductory discussion on the relationship between family mediation and law, and difficulties in communication between mediators and lawyers will examine the different roles that can develop a mediation lawyer, referring to the benefits of collaboration through measurement process. It then reflects on the the mediator with a legal background and the consequences of such conduct and practical. Finally, we briefly show the use of mediation techniques by the lawyer who works as such in a family process.


The roles of family mediation lawyer

Ana María Sánchez Durán

collaboration between lawyers and family mediators is one of the fundamental requirements for family mediation to work. After an introductory discussion Relations between family mediation and law, and communication difficulties between mediators and lawyers will examine the different roles that can develop a mediation lawyer, referring to the benefits of collaboration through the measurement process . It then reflects on the mediator with a legal background and the consequences of such conduct and practical. Finally, we briefly show the use of mediation techniques by the lawyer who works as such in a family process.

systemisches Mediationsverfahren Ein für Familien im Umbruch

L. Parkinson

This work shows how a systemic process by all who are active in mediation, can be used both when it comes to structural changes within of families, living through a phase of separation or divorce, understand, as well as to facilitate communication in newly formed family systems, promoted by fostering cooperation and maintaining a role appropriate relationship between the parents are supported.
The method of "Ökogramms," a modified form of the genogram, is presented can be detected with the aid of the ecology of the structure and system of the family in their development process.
following is a brief description of functions and policies which may require the mediator in stock to help the family transition from one phase to the next.


The parental functions in remodeled family (blended families)

Chantal Van Cutsem

defines the present study and analyze the structure of transformed family (blended families) and the problem of the allocation of parental Functions.
If we encounter children or adolescents whose parents are separated, we have to deal with family systems, which differ from traditional families of origin (father-mother-child) clear.
When we asked ourselves a family währnd of separation or during a new take on family formation, then we have the question of the division of parental functions.
What are these parental functions that accompany the education of our young patients?
What ideas do we have even these new family structures?
In practice, these young patients will be invited for interview, together with all involved family members and so in the broad sense to all parents facing functions, of which they find themselves surrounded. Each
reshaped family has a different structure, the biological, legal and emotional functions may be fulfilled by several different people. Such situations call for a new conception of family Srukturen and after a procedure that is specific to each system.
Some theoretical concepts that relate to this question are presented and then some elements of therapeutic practice explained with the help of two clinical situations.


On the trail of the fur of the bear of the rising sun

Pasquale Busso

The wisdom of the people expressed in the story, allows us to understand that the autonomy of the basic condition for an equal relationship is. Especially in family mediation, the exchange of mutual expectations, which connects to the level of partnership, the couple together, the achievement of positive parental consent on the level and make it difficult especially its principles into practice.
This paper will analyze the way in which two non-autonomous person corresponding to a position mutual freedom can be led to overcome the problems relating to a reorganization of the family, jointly. In particular
is shown how to bring two people so far that they
a) listen to the barriers of time, which due to the accusations and attacks of the partner had been built b) and move more freely without the shackles of partnership involvement can.

The wisdom of the people expressed in the story, allows us to understand that the autonomy of the basic condition for an equal relationship. Especially in family mediation, the exchange gegenseitiger Erwartungshaltungen, die auf der Ebene der Partnerschaft das Paar miteinander verbindet, das Erreichen eines positiven Einverständnisses auf der elterlichen Ebene und vor allem dessen praktische Umsetztung erschweren.
In diesem Beitrag wird der Art und Weise nachgegangen, wie zwei nicht autonome Personen auf eine Position entsprechender gegenseitiger Freiheit hingeführt werden können, um die Probleme, die eine Neuorganisation der Familie betreffen, gemeinsam bewältigen zu können.
Im Besonderen wird gezeigt, wie man zwei Personen so weit bringt, dass sie
a) sich über die Schranken hinweg zuhören, die auf Grund der Bezichtigungen und Angriffe des Partners aufgebaut worden waren b) und sich ohne die Fesseln der partnerschaftlichen Verstrickung freier bewegen können.


Fuer eine Geschichte der Familienmediation

Costanza Marzotto

Die Autorin bietet uns einen Überblick über die Geschichte der Familienmediation, ausgehend von den ersten Erfahrungen in Amerika und Kanada bis hin zu den Anfängen in Europa und schließlich in Italien dieser neuen Behandlungsart für Paare, die sich in einer Trennungsphase befinden.
Eine umfangreiche Bibliographie sowie zahlreiche historische Hinweise bieten dem Leser eine nützliche Orientierungshilfe.


family mediation and also

Aldo Mattucci

This article is treading a digression on the importance of the conflict, to the techniques and goals of mediation towards the issues that can occur in a partner relationship and the relationship that exists between involvement of the couple and the scope for mediation if a conflict occurs after the separation. get
The difficulty of the parental function after termination of the partnership maintains, is closely combined with the ability that the pair had after the period of infatuation, process the appropriate projections on the partner's needs, which have remained unsatisfied in the original families.
should be failed this processing, then so be left open important questions that in the event of a breach of the psychological transition to a division is not possible, which in turn is a fundamental condition for the perception of parental function. Finally, the common drawing is the preferred technique presented by which the mediator is it possible to gain direct access to the children.


Ausbildung in Familienmediation: eine Technik oder nur Nachfragen?

Lia Mastropaolo

Ausgehend von ihren Erfahrungen als Trainerin in verschiedenen Ländern und unterschiedlichen Bereichen (Italien und Spanien, Universität, öffentliches Gesundheitswesen und private Institute) beschreibt die Autorin ihr « Genueser Modell « für die Ausbildung in Mediation.
Definiert werden auch die Unterschiede zwischen Mediation, Intervention, die auf Veränderung abzielt, und Therapie.
Einige feed-back von Ausbildungskandidaten tragen zu einer klaren Darstellung des Ausbildungsmodells when, based on questions and creative ideas and not on preconceived solutions.
The model provides for the direct processing of the conflict and not avoid it, and emphasizes the importance of children that are already present from the first session.
Partial mediation is avoided in favor of a global and integrated intervention.


the right tension between the opposites. How to become a mediator?

Giuseppe Ruggiero

If it is the essential role of the mediator, the vital and constructive take up aspect of the conflict and focusing your energy on the crucial developmental stages and the evolving goals of the system, however, the biggest difficulty is the most efficient way first all voltages, one encounters during the course, and later the practice of mediation themselves, to reconcile.
It is therefore a kind of obstacle course where the inconsistency is the rule, and the search for creative solutions that can get the right tension between the opposing poles upright, the target is.
The author describes five polarities that the complex work of the emergence of the identity of the mediator begleiten und unterzieht sie einer kurzen Untersuchung.

Der Artikel schließt mit dem Wunsch, dass die didaktische Kommission des AIMS bei der Suche nach neuen Ausbildungsmodellen immer neue Anregungen geben kann, um somit die Qualität des Lernprozesses selbst und demnach auch die Praxis der Mediation zu verbessern.


Familienmediation und Berufsdeontologie : theoretische Ueberlegungen in progress

Francesco Mazzei, Bruno Schettini

Erwartungshaltungen, die damit verbunden sind, verlangt einerseits, that the mediator is trained and the other, that it in this regard is a professional code of ethics, which is clearly defined and seeks to ensure that both the actions of the mediator on the basis of standards, which are all engaged in this profession, the same as well the interest of the client to be controlled.
This post highlights the lack of any statutory provision by which
practicing these so-called unregulated new intellectual professions
characterized. It is further tried to make a legally-formative and psycho-social context, taking account of the normative and parametric normative aspects that are part of the institution of marriage as well as the separation sind.
Nachdem die Autoren die Anwendungsbereiche des Mediationsverfahrens – die gesetzlichen wie auch die psychosozialen – definiert haben, machen sie unter einem synoptischen und komparativen Aspekt die autodisziplinären Normen deutlich, die derzeit in den verschiedenen Ausbildungsinstitutionen für Mediation vorherrschen und beleuchten die Problematik innerhalb der zivilrechtlichen Normen, die für die Ausbildung intellektueller Berufe bestehen, bezüglich der Erfüllung der Pflichten, was die Mittel, und nicht das Ergebnis betrifft, wodurch eine Reflexion über Situationen, die in Zukunft möglich sind, angeregt wird.


Über listen to the need to a minor during the process of family mediation. The use of the "Lausanne TriadicPlay"

Paola Aldinucci, Giacarlo Francini

This work takes its starting point in analyzing the content of experiences of children in the middle of the event of separation of parents aufttretendenKonflikte are. The children within this
übenehmen conflictuality functions that express their most intimate desires, but also not always conscious goal pursuit.
this regard is the last of the minor Legislation the right granted in any process that betrift him directly, to be listened to. Which in turn is neither simple nor safe, even for specialists. On the one hand, there is the need to pay attention to their needs, recognize the other, the deeper meaning to just these needs.
If you listen to the minors within a family mediation, ie the same time the parents to offer practical help in terms of the relationship that exists between them and their children at the time of their lives, to make both their words as well as their desires to understand ..
This describes a methodology, based on the "Lausanne Triadic Play" and is based on the video recording. The child is thus not only the role of an active subject within the family dynamics granted, but also the right belongs, to become and active part in what is required by the applicable standards. Moreover, it is an effective technique that can be used by mediators to offer concrete help to the couple in terms of the objective to continue to maintain their parental function.


Mediation as a privileged instrument in the operations of the SpazioNeutro

Lonardi
Giovanna Mantovani, Tiziana

The maintenance of family relationships is a necessary condition for therapeutic intervention Spazio Neutro.
With this article, the authors rely on the theoretical foundations of such service, by referring to the systemic three-generation model and consider in particular the importance of relations within the family and the function of parenthood.
By describing the experiences of the Spazio Neutro in Verona is also stressed the importance of mediation techniques, as are the preferred tools for both personal history and the experience of minors to protect.


The role of the lawyer in a family mediation

Ana Maria Sánchez Durán

Cooperation between lawyers and family mediators is essential for a family mediation can function at all.
After introductory considerations on the relationship between family mediation and the law, and the difficulties of communication between mediators and lawyers, examines the various roles that a lawyer in a mediation can take over by highlight the benefits arising from cooperation in the course of a mediation process. Then, the identity of the mediator with a legal education is reflected and therefore the deontological and practical consequences.
is finally referred to the mediation techniques of the lawyer, who works as such in a family process.